Looking for Cotton Eye Joe
Dear sister Diane,
I looked into this song a bit. There are several groups who do it, or other songs with this title. Several of them have it marked as “Explicit lyrics” which means that those versions probably wouldn’t go over too well in mixed company. 
 If you could find out the group, that would help me narrow my search. Perhaps you know the people who ran the party or wedding at which you heard the song, and they might know.
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Tom