Facebook Tid Bits: 2010-07-14
08:35 PM: I believe people pick WRONG because they think they’ll never find RIGHT. Big mistake. But then, that’s an easy error to make because it’s hard to know if you’ve picked wrong until you’ve already picked, since people hide their skeletons so well.
Further, once you discover the wrongness, it can be quite hard to pull away. That’s the trap of getting to know someone too well before deciding about their rightness. Once we develop compassion for their feelings, we often put our own needs aside, even when it’s so wrong to do so.