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Today’s Business: 2012-01-23

Monday, January 23rd, 2012

Today’s Activities

  • Shower. DONE.
  • Cat duty.  DONE.  Cat duty involves cleaning the litter boxes, bagging the excess, feeding, and house cleaning cat dirt of all types.
  • Wash (3) loads of pending laundry.  DONE.

Log

08:30 AM: I’m up.

08:45 AM: Facebooked for perhaps ten minutes. Friend count: 623 (unchanged). Fan count: 114 (unchanged).

05:00 PM: Replaced basement windows 7 and 8 on the south wall with glass block upgrades.  This took much of today, as window 8 had lots of crumbling mortar around it.  I had to shovel a few buckets of gravel into the gaping holes in the foundation that surfaced when the old window was removed.  I then replaced that old mortar with a fresh new coat of a way more modern mixture.

07:00 PM: Watched today’s episode of   The Young and the Restless   via the DVR.

07:45 PM: Watched today’s episode of  Dr. Phil,   called   Under The Influence.

11:00 PM: Talked with   [Emmy].  We watched tonight’s rerun episode of   Hawaii Five-0.

11:20 PM: I’m heading to bed.  Good night and do stop back tomorrow for more content.  :-)    Good night.

Tom Hesley

Received Mail and Shipments

  • 5-day sale coupon from Wolf Furniture.  Well, unfortunately, with the expense of all the new windows I’ve incurred, both in the basement and on the 1st and 2nd floors, I can afford no furniture.  Check back with me in a year.  :-)
  • Offer from American Express Personal Savings to set up a savings account with them.  Not at this time, thanks.
  • Credit card offer from Chase Freedom.  Not at this time, thanks.
  • Balance transfer checks from Chase Freedom.  No thanks.
  • Auto insurance offer from Mom’s bank.  No thanks.
  • Eleven month contract summary from the company who manages some of my investments.
  • $15 coupon from Dell; probably because I bought a computer from them last summer.  However, as it expires at the end of February, 2012, I’ll probably not use it.
  • Discover card offer.  Not at this time, thanks.
  • Sewage bill.
  • Misc. medical bills for Mom.
  • Updated rate sheet for 2012 from my cable television provider.
  • The Writer magazine; the 2012-01 edition.
  • Letter from the company that manages some of my investments, detailing the numerous changes to tax law for 2011 filing.  None of these changes affect me at present.
  • Misc. bank papers.
  • Gas bill.
  • Bill for Mom, for her transportation to the last leg of the Christmas Eve progressive dinner at sister Christine’s house.
  • Offer from my electricity company for exterior electrical line protection insurance.  No thanks.
  • Monthly bill from the nursing home where Mom is staying.
  • Consumer Reports magazine; the 2012-01 edition.
  • Talking book: The Examined Life; edited by Stanley Rosen.
  • Talking book: Get With The Program: Getting Real About Your Health, Weight, … Bob Greene.
  • Talking Book: Imperfect Control: Our Lifelong Struggles with Power and Surrender, by Judith Viorst.
  • Talking Book: Practical Philosophy, by Immanuel Kant.

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Facebook Tid Bits: 2010-06-28

Monday, June 28th, 2010

11:52 AM: Yes, that’s true. There’s nothing more frustrating than having a discussion with someone who knows not what they know not. :-) In that situation, I don’t even bother trying to teach them; unless of course, they’re a boss or something. Then, it becomes necessary to cope with the ignorance. Grrrrrrrrr.

04:45 PM: I got notified by [a big appliance store in Philadelphia] like that once when I ordered an entertainment stand. When I got there, they told me that I’d already picked the thing up. Well, we went around and around; to the point where the sales person and I were shouting at each other. I then called their main headquarters, and they instructed the store manager where I bought the unit to give me a new one; pronto. Then, when I went back again to finally get the furniture, that manager wouldn’t even speak to me; just stuck her nose in thei air and walked away while her subordinates carried it to the car. That happened back in 2001 and I never bought anything from them again; at least, not until this past February when I purchased my iPod Touch. Still though, they lost much business from me because of that fiasco in Philly.

09:41 PM: I think that books by self-described “average-looking” guys on how to seduce beautiful women, would be more believable if those fellows would include pictures of themselves. They rarely do however. That and their misleading tactics of trickery virtually destroys their credibility. Sure, they’re fun to read. But most  offer little practical value IMHO. Hmmmm. The things people say to make a buck. :-)

Tom Hesley

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Facebook Tid Bits: 2010-06-13

Sunday, June 13th, 2010
07:34 PM: [Advising a friend who's complaining about feeling sad a lot.]  Check out the book: You Can’t Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought by Peter McWilliams. It’s positive, light, and makes lots of sense. Also, watch the refined carbs. Excessive white flour and sugar can depress you by upsetting your internal nutrient balance. Eat more whole foods instead. You’ll probably feel better.
08:22 PM: [Commenting on a lady's photo that depicted her, all splashed up with wet dirt]:   Wow, what happened? Did kids splash a mud puddle near you? :-)
08:24 PM: [She explained that she'd been out four-wheeling and that the wheels splashed her]: Ah yes. Looks messy but sounds fun. :-)
Tom Hesley

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Updating Emmy: 2006-01-09

Monday, January 9th, 2006

Dear [Emmy],

I’m fine. I lost four pounds last week. The weight this morning was 167.5.

Keep up the good diet work. Otherwise, I’ll get ahead of you.

The cold feels a little better today. Since it’s so warm out, I plan on taking down the Christmas lights outside this afternoon.

Do you want the picture in email or in regular mail?

“everything in it’s rightful place.” Don’t put an apostrophe on “its” in this case It is one of those weird [nouns] that does not get an apostrophe to denote possession. Use the apostrophe when contracting “it is” to “it’s” but not for ownership.

Your gift was meaningful. I enjoyed reading that Dr. Phil book.

I never received the camp picture from last year, though I did pay for one. I’ll have to ask [the director] about it.

Thanks for the supportive, encouraging words.

Talk to you tonight,
Tom

Today’s Business: 2005-08-18

Thursday, August 18th, 2005

Dear   [Emmy],

Got your message.

The computer is working well.

I did some writing between 3:30 and 5:30 this morning. For some reason, I’ve been waking up in the middle of the night lately, and can’t get back to sleep for a couple hours. So I figure I’ll just work when that happens, until I’m once again tired.

I applied today for a $50 rebate for the cell phone. Scanning the UPC symbol so a copy of it could be printed to include with that application was a bit difficult. But it’s done now, and hopefully in eight to twelve weeks, the check will arrive here.

The weather’s nice here today as well. Bright sun, and temps in the low eighties.

I spent a couple hours with the journal this morning, and hope to finish reading Job this afternoon.

Well, take care, and will talk to you later.

Tom

Notes from Big Fat Lies Book

Tuesday, October 28th, 2003

[Tina],

Here are some notes I’ve taken from that “Big Fat Lies” book by Glenn A. Gaesser, Ph. D. that we were talking about last night. Hopefully, these better explain what I was trying to relate.

In my mind after reading this book, the case that thinness is unequivocally better is not as clear cut as it used to be. The book raises some big questions about how it was determined in the 20th century that thinness is the healthiest way to live over all.

Thinner Not Always Better
1. The act of losing weight itself can place the person at increased health risk. That is, you may be at greater risk of premature death if you lose fifty pounds than if you were to keep that weight on.

2. Ninety percent of the people who lose weight gain it back in five years. Often they gain more weight than they lost initially.

3. Not necessarily a strong association between the state of being overweight and hardening of the arteries. My mom’s arteries are clear even though she is close to 100 pounds overweight.

4. “Fat in the arteries and fat on the body are different and not necessarily related.” From “Big Fat Lies” book.

5. You can have lots of body fat and still be fit.

6. Yo Yo dieting can be fatal. Heavier people tend to do this more than thin people and so this may inflate the risk of premature death among the overweight population.

7. Yo Yo dieting — or weight cycling — over time usually results in weight gain. So dieting promotes rather than cures obecity.

8. Ponder: Do fat people who become thin end up attracting more people than they did when they were fat? I’m not convinced of this. I’ve seen many cases to the contrary. I know lots of heavy people who enjoy happy relationships.

9. The mere presence of body fat does not necessarily indicate that the person carrying it is unhealthy.

10. Weight and cholesterol levels are not necessarily related. Shown through sever studies.

11. Healthy bodies come in many shapes and sizes.

12. Fatness and obesity appear to be dangerous only when they are the result of diets rich in junk foods, and a daily regimen deficient in physical exercise.

13. Perhaps the insurance companies invented the height weight tables so they could charge customers higher premiums. If they declared that weights should be very low for a person’s height in order for the customer to pay the least amount of money in premiums, then over two thirds of the people in the US would be considered overweight, and therefore, subject to the higher premiums. There’s a profit motive here, for publishing skewed height weight tables. Are the insurance companies interested in promoting good health or raising their profits?

14. The fitness and fashion industries stand to benefit from skewed height weight tables that favor the very thin. How? People buy exercise equipment and enroll in weight loss and exercise programs, spending billions of dollars on weight reduction. Usually, they gain the weight back and repeat the process several times over a lifetime, ensuring a bumper and sustained income for these industries. The clothing industry benefits as well, because people lose weight, then buy close to fit their new figure. Then, they gain weight again and so much purchase bigger clothes to fit them.

15. Diet drug companies also benefit from the public belief that thinner is better because people buy more drugs to lose weight when they believe that they should lose it, than they would if they stayed heavy.

16. The medical industry keeps its income flowing in because they are called upon to treat all the health problems that result from yo yo dieting.

17. Body weights associated with the lowest mortality rates increases with age. However, typical weight height tables don’t account for this, claiming that a 5’4’’ woman should weigh roughly 120 pounds regardless of how old she is.

18. Most people with type two or non insulin dependent diabetes can so substantially improve their condition through diet changes and exercise that, even when they have lost little or no weight, and remain at weights that are considered clinically obese, they can discontinue their medications. They don’t necessarily have to lose their excess weight to cure their diabetes.

19. A government study from 1976 through 1980 of over twenty thousand people showed that excessive amounts of lean body tissue is more strongly linked to high blood pressure than is excess body fat.

20. With weight loss, in addition to decreases in body fat also comes decreases in lean body mass. Any time someone loses weight, they lose some of their muscle tissue as well as the fat tissue. Several studies show that the reduction in blood pressure traditionally associated with weight loss is more closely related to loss in the lean body tissue than it is to the loss of body fat. So concluding that actually body fat loss promotes good health is not supported by the evidence.

21. Yo Yo dieting causes high blood pressure in some people. It may be the presence of yo yo dieting rather than fat itself that causes this elevated blood pressure.

22. Obese people may tend to have high blood pressure more than thin folks because they tend to do more yo yo dieting.

23. Studies in the mid eighties show that there are no more fatty deposits in the blood vessels of fat and thin people of the same age.

24. One study done at the university of Tennessee showed that for every eleven pounds of additional weight, that there is a ten to forty percent lower chance of having fatty deposits in the arteries. The fattest people tended to have the cleanest arteries.

25. Dietary changes, but not necessarily the actual carrying of excess weight can influence morality rates and fat deposits in the arteries.

26. Behaviors that lead to obesity may be the real culprits as far as raising death tolls in this country, not necessarily the obesity itself.

27. This book claims that we have a “natural” weight and suggests that we may be at greater health risk if we’re over that weight. For some people, this natural weight would make them thin. Thus, for these, they’d begin experiencing problems commonly associated with overweight at a much lower weight than others. Some tend to be most healthy at an average weight. And still others are healthiest when they are overweight according to the insurance companies’ height weight tables. These people would tend to suffer health problems when they’re too thin. However, this guy offered no direct empirical evidence of the existence of this natural weight. So I’m skeptical about this claim. But he says that each person’s natural weight is not simply an arbitrary decree by the medical and insurance industries.

28. Oftentimes, people dismiss books that say fatter is better, claiming that they were written by a fat person and that that fat person is just interested in promoting fatness. But this problem would also affect thin people writing books that support the thin-is-better idea. Most of us think that the way we are is the best way to be. So there would tend to be a bias in the writings of thin authors toward thinness in books that support thinness, as well as a bias toward fatness by fat authors writing books that support fatness. I don’t see where this would be any more or less true among the fat and the thin. Why would the book for thinness be any more or less credible than the one supporting fatness? They’d both be subject to authorial bias and it’s not clear that one would be any more subject to this bias than the other.

29. A person can be physically fit, regardless of whether they’re fat or thin. Some fat people have better endurance in aerobics than the thin.

 

Tom

Dr. Mirkin Books

Friday, May 30th, 2003

Dear Steve,

Check out this site on the no refined carbs diet . . .
http://drmirkin.com/  

Dr. Mirkin publishes some books that talk all about the benefits of such a diet. There’s info about the books on this site and also some articles there which you can read as well. So far this year, I’ve managed 75 days without eating flour, pasta, doughnuts, and pretzels – anything with flour or added sugars. My goal for this year is 150 bad-carb-free days. I’m ahead of schedule. The stretch goal is 180 days. Last year, I had about 120 no-carb days. Hopefully, in the next five years, I can get the number up over 320 days.

 

Tom Hesley

Bean Soup and Other Bits

Monday, September 9th, 2002

Dear   [Lynn],

Hey,

You still alive? Haven’t talked to you since June sometime. How ya doin’? All is well here.

Just made a big roaster full of bean soup today.

Spent a few days in Dayton last week, and a few days in Philly.

Started writing the book. 6000 words down so far, with the goal being 100,000 words.

The family is doing fine.

Diane sends her regards. She occasionally asks about you and wonders how the plant business is going.

Well, I’m off to bed. Write back when you get some time. Stay in touch. After all, you’re the only person I really know in Maine. :-)

Later,
Tom

Our Tuxedo Cats

Wednesday, August 21st, 2002

Dear [Vee],

I think they call them Tuxedo cats because they’re black and white. The male is very thin while the female sports a much rounder figure. :)   They both have very long tails and are very friendly and affectionate. The don’t purr very loudly too often. But they do purr when you pet them. Being held isn’t their favorite activity but occasionally, they’ll jump up onto your lap.

You can read the book early.

Yep, I love smoked salmon especially.

Later,
Tom

Update: 2002-08-20

Tuesday, August 20th, 2002

Dear   [Vee],

My sister Joann stopped by tonight and we went shopping at Sam’s to the tune of $320. I stocked up on lots of Salmon, which I just finished packing for the freezer, some shampoo, blank cassette tapes, and some cat food for Jasper and Baby. Added 2100 words to the book today. We’re definitely off to the races with this project. :) Goal is 100,000 words, the size of an average self-help book.

More later,
Tom