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Today’s Business: 2011-03-17

Thursday, March 17th, 2011

Today’s Activities

  • Shower. DONE.
  • Cat duty. DONE.
  • Pay all (6) pending bills.  DONE.

Log

09:00 AM: I’m up, after having laid in bed for about 20 minutes, watching CNN’s latest on the nuclear disaster in Japan.  They’ve begun using the water canons to cool the reactors.  But so far, radiation levels have not dropped.  They’ve added a couple hundred more workers in rotating shifts, to attempt reactor shutdown operations, and there’s about to activate a new power line into the plant, that should restart the failed reactor cooling systems.  

09:10 AM: I resigned from my software engineering position eight years ago today. 

09:15 AM: Also, Pap Jewell was born on this day in 1905, and would have been 106 years old had he lived.  He passed away on September 10th, 1977 from diabetes complications, at 72 years of age.  Gram told me once that Pap lived longer than any of his siblings at the time who had died before him.  “He outlived them all,” she said, as if to reassure the both of us that we’d enjoyed a rich, full, and very long time of togetherness with him, and so we should remember to be thankful for that when those times of crying come around.  I still miss him, and after nearly thirty four years without him, I think I’ll never stop missing him.  He was a truly wonderful man.   

10:00 AM: Called Mom’s bank to see if the hold on that check we deposited last week has been released.  Tomorrow, they tell me. 

12:15 PM: Posted the   Site Stats: 2011-03-17   piece.

02:25 PM: Shredded a big laundry basket full of junk mail and no-longer-needed papers.  Took over an hour. 

03:05 PM: Walked to Sheetz for a pulled pork sub.  Delicious. 

03:50 PM: Added more comments to the   NPR Funding Debate   piece.

04:20 PM: Leaving now for walk 3 of 100 this year.  Back later.

04:55 PM: I’m back from a jaunt around Logan Valley cemetery.  It’s a sunny 62 degrees at the moment here, and the air is fresh.  Should be hearing the spring peepers start up any day now.  I hope I didn’t say that already. 

08:30 PM: Posted the first parts of the   Quit Job Eight Years Ago Today   piece.

11:00 PM: Talked with   [Emmy].

11:40 PM: Watched a bit of the AC 360 coverage on the Japanese nuclear disaster.  They say that the Japanese government has declared that radiation levels have “peaked” today.  Hopefully, that means that they’ll begin falling tomorrow.  Hopefully. 

12:10 AM: Reviewed today’s traffic stats on my blogs.  The thirty day unique keyword hit count has risen from 671 to 690.  Terrific!

12:15 AM: Last time I took the lawn tractor across the street for its yearly maintenance was three years ago. So I’d say that it’s about time. Hale to spring !

12:30 AM: I wish they had Wifi at the cemetery where I walk.

01:00 AM: Spring peepers chirping for first time this year, tonight, here at the foot of Brush Mountain, just like clockwork. They always seem to come out on or about St. Patrick’s Day. Man, now I really have to get that lawn tractor fixed, pronto!

01:10 AM: I’m headed to bed, to prepare for another, even warmer, wonderful late winter day.  So take care.  More later.  Good night. 

Tom Hesley

Received Mail and Shipments

  • Co-payment bill from Mom’s primary care physician. 
  • Survey from the first nursing care place Mom resided in 2011. 

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June Dillon Passed Away Today

Thursday, January 7th, 2010

At the Lions Club meeting tonight, I learned from Don Mills that June Dillon passed away earlier today from some form of cancer.  My family and hers lived across the street from each other during the early 1970s on North Third Street in Bellwood, and as a boy, I had a crush on Mrs. Dillon because she could play the organ so well; she used to do songs I liked when I’d visit her daughters, which at that time, were elementary schoolmates of mine besides.  She invited my sisters and I over to watch Batman on their color television now and then, as we only had black and white at our house, and she knew how much we enjoyed seeing the shows in color.  Then we’d sit around her and her organ afterwards, and be mesmerized by the complex yet intricate melodies that flowed from her fingers.  Anyone that could play like June was a queen in my book, as I loved music then as I do now, and idolized anyone who could make it sound as good as she did. 

In fact, I’d said to [Emmy] a couple years ago that we should visit June and have her play for us.  I think their organ was a Hammond B3 (or something that sounded very much like the B3), and as [Emmy] and I are big fans of music in which the B3 was used, we really wanted to visit and have June show us what every lever, button, knob, and key did.  However, June’s been sick for a long time, as has Mom.  So we never got down to see the Dillons, though had Mom felt better, she would have taken us, and I think June would have enjoyed seeing me after over thirty years.   

Anyway, I just wanted to say to June, thanks for all the music and wonderful childhood memories, for it was your playing that got me interested in the B3, and is largely why today, I’m a huge organ music fan.  You could play that instrument every bit as well as the musicians I’d heard on the radio, who were cranking out the big B3 hits in the sixties and seventies.  You could have made the hits as well if you had ever followed that path.  But actually, I’m glad that you decided to stick around our small town and raise a family; else, I’d have never heard you play, live, in your living room.  Do rest in peace, June.

 Tom Hesley

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Today’s Business: 2010-01-04

Monday, January 4th, 2010

Today’s Chores

  • Cat duty.  DONE.
  • Dispensing Mom’s meds.  DONE.
  • Shower.   DONE.
  • Send out five pending memorial checks for the   WPSBC Alumni Association.
  • Take meds and grocery inventories.  DONE.
  • Do all pending laundry (3 loads).  DONE.

Log 

10:00 AM: I’m up.

11:00 AM: Starting the laundry now.

02:15 PM: Installed the   attic fan bypass switch   today.

03:30 PM: Received mail:

  • A memorial check request from the   WPSBC Alumni Association.  Member   Etta Lockhart Burge,   class of 1951, passed away recently.
  • 2010-01 issue of Promo Only’s Modern Rock CD series.

 

04:00 PM: Categorized and edited posts on this, the   Tom’s Diary   blog throughout today.  There are now just 245 of them left ot categorize. Once this is done, I’ll begin the same work on the   Tom’s Love Quest   blog.

05:30 PM: For supper, we had baked chicken breast seasoned with Buffalo sauce along with some leftover taco dip from last week.

06:00 PM: Watched today’s episodes of   Dr. Phil,  Pittsburgh Today Live,  and   The Young and the Restless   on the DVR.

07:00 PM: [Emmy]  is packing to leave here tomorrow for home, and we’re putting away all  the laundry done today.

08:00 PM: Nap time.

09:00 PM: We’re up once more, and hanging out here in the office, discussing what we each hope to accomplish in the new year. 

12:35 AM: [Emmy]   and I listened to the CBS Radio Mystery Theater, to the following episode:

  • 1974-03-18   Sea of Troubles

 

12:50 AM: Posted today’s list of added and revised posts   here.

01:00 AM: It’s bed time.  So, I’m off of here for now.  Catch you tomorrow, and do stay warm.

Tom Hesley

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Fred Honsberger Died Today

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

Just heard from   [Tad]   that Pittsburgh radio talk show host Fred Honsberger passed away this morning.  I mention this because when I interned at KDKA Radio back in 1978-1979, he often recorded commercials and news items while I was preparing news-clip tape cartridges in the control room.  Then, during the 1980s, when he first switched from news to hosting talk shows, I listened for many hours while house-cleaning, writing computer programs, and so on, on Craig St.

I opposed his political views, and found him generally to be obtuse and intentionally adversarial.  But he made people laugh, just the same.  You either loved him or hated him.  But now I suppose, we’ll mourn him.  He was 58 years old.

Tom Hesley

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Today’s Business: 2009-11-13

Friday, November 13th, 2009

Today’s Chores

  • Cat duty
  • Giving Mom her meds

Log

07:20 AM: I’m up.

11:10 AM: Just got back from   today’s shopping trip.  Putting the treasures away now.

12:00 PM: Worked the   household organization effort.

12:55 PM: Just informed [Olga] and her husband about   Richard Meckler’s passing.  They were shocked and noticeably saddened as was I to hear it.  [Olga] did speak briefly with Rich’s wife.  But she didn’t feel much like talking.  So we all might have to wait a few days before calling her again. 

01:30 PM: Worked the   Christmas lighting, 2009 project.  I’ll be putting up lights along both sides of the driveway this afternoon, while the weather is still so gorgeous.

05:00 PM: Brother-in-law Richard came by with a trailer.  We’re buying some wood and supplies for the    wheelchair ramp project   on    tonight’s shopping trip.

07:15 PM: After we got the wood picked out, purchased, loaded, driven here, then unloaded, I went back to work on the   Christmas lighting, 2009 project.

09:40 PM: Just finished watching today’s episode of   The Young and the Restless.  Now, I’m calling [Emmy] for a chat.

10:30 PM: Watched a half-hour of AC 360.  Sarah Palin appeared there, again!  Apparently, she just published a book that’s rather controversial among McCain insiders.  *sigh*  I don’t care.  The media gives this woman way more attention than she warrants.  Nope.  You guessed it.  I’m no Palin fan.  

10:45 PM: One thing I learned yesterday on Promo Only’s Express Audio DFF delivery format: They’re shipping future issues in DVD ROM format instead of CD ROM.  This gives them much more space on each disk to, hopefully, fit more new music each week on.  The disc was almost full on the first issue I got this past Monday.  They could either include more music, or offer multiple format and bits-per-second choices for each song in the issue.  I’m curious to see what Promo Only will utilize the added space of DVD ROM.

11:15 PM: Time for bed.  I’m almost out of steam.  So good night, and look for more here tomorrow.

Tom Hesley

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Today’s Business: 2009-11-12

Thursday, November 12th, 2009

Today’s Chores

  • Cat duty
  • Giving Mom her meds
  • Finishing all pending laundry started yesterday

Log 

07:20 AM: I’m up.

09:35 AM: Worked the   Christmas lighting, 2009 project.

09:50 AM: Wrote the initial post for the   household organization effort.

10:00 AM:  Worked the   household organization effort

10:35 AM: Worked the   Christmas lighting, 2009 project.  150 blue LED bulbs arrived today and I’m putting them into strings and considering where outside to place them.

11:30 AM: Sister Diane just arrived.  We’re driving to State College in a few minutes to meet sister Mary Ann for lunch.  See you when I get back.

11:57 AM: Well, we learned that sister Diane’s gray car is too small to carry Mom’s wheelchair.  Neither the trunk nor the back seat have sufficient space for the chair.  Not even Mom’s scooter would fit.  Indeed, we learned this after we’d already transferredMom into the car.  So, we moved her back out again and into the house until Diane gets back with her larger vehicle. She should return in fifteen minutes or so.

01:15 PM: We ended up going to sister Mary Ann’s for the afternoon, so Mom could see the grand kids. 

05:30 PM: Then, we had Parmesan chicken for supper.  You just take some egg white and mix with a generous portion of grated Parmesan cheese, then put it in the oven for around a half-hour.  Yummy.

07:45 PM: We’re back home again.  Over all, we had a great time.  Now I’m off to watch today’s episode of   The Young and the Restless.

09:45 PM: [Tad] called to let me know that   Richard Meckler passed away.

10:30 PM: Talked with [Emmy]. 

12:00 AM: Watched a little AC 360.  It’s the 40th anniversary of Sesame Street, and so, Anderson Cooper interviewed Oscar, who says that he’s actually 43 years old.  You know Oscar the grouch; the the green fellow with the matted fur who lives in a trash can.  Remember?  He was witty and rather funny actually.  :-)   I remember when the show first started.  I was in third grade and the home room teacher read us an article about the show, and many of us got to see the first episode, since we knew from this where and when to find it.  While I was not a big fan of the series, I did like some the “heated” exchanges between Burt and Ernie.  That blue cookie monster had his unique charms too.  Good show.

12:05 AM: I’m off to bed.  Going Wal Marting in about nine hours, and so I’ve got to be fresh.  Later.

Tom Hesley

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Richard Meckler Passed Away

Thursday, November 12th, 2009

I just received word that Richard Meckler, a schoolmate of mine who graduated in 1975, passed away earlier this evening.  He, his wife of twenty-six years, and myself were great friends during the eighties.  She and I were roommates when the two of them fell in love back in 1981.  Then, they married in 1982 and in 1983, they had their only child, a cute little girl. For several years, from 1984 through 1988, we all lived at Moorhead, and I’d often visit them on Sunday nights, when KDKA TV ran two Hawaii Five-0 episodes back-to-back.  Often, we’d get pizza and they’d both patiently listen as I whined about my struggles in college. 

Richard cared a lot for his family and friends and never expressed any hostility toward anyone that I know of.  He was the very sort of fellow that his wife really needed, as she had more than her share of physical challenges to cope with.  Though he knew some wild characters in his day, he never judged anyone harshly, and seemed to have a great capacity for empathy.  He tended to the mother of his child with such compassion, and never got tired of doing so.

I lost touch with them when I left Pittsburgh in 1988 and shortly thereafter, they moved to Michigan.  In fact, 1988 was the last time I ever spoke to Rich, though I did chat with his wife once in 1996.  I’m gong to call her tomorrow to express my condolences and perhaps, catch up a little.  I never forgot what a kind-hearted soul he was, and though we haven’t talked in such a long time, tonight the world feels a bit more empty to me, now that he’s gone.  I’ll miss knowing that he’s around.

Take care, Richard.  You were a great friend both locally, and over long distances.  This place needs more people like you.

Tom Hesley

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13Q Memories

Saturday, October 31st, 2009

In the early winter of 1973, upon returning to school after Christmas vacation, we found a new radio station on the band in Pittsburgh.  That was WKTQ (13Q). 1320 AM and WSHH (also 13Q) 100.7 FM.  For the rest of the school year, the AM and FM sides broadcast the same program (simocast), with the FM station offering a monophonic but notably higher-fidelity version of the AM content. 

The AM side of 13Q radio had been station WJAS, which, if I remember correctly, played jazz and big band instrumental music. Not my favorite music at the time, I was thrilled to learn that “the new sound of 13Q” consisted instead, of rock, pop, and some novelty hits that they played until we got so sick of them that we couldn’t bear to hear them anymore.  One of those was Chuck Berry’s  My Ding-A-Ling.  A hit from the fall of  1972, they played it several times a day, well after it had gone off the charts; as late as the summer of 1973, trying to resurrect it.  The 13Q radio DJs commented that the other Pittsburgh stations had ripped us off when it came to this song, and that 13Q would make up that shortfall by over-playing it, a lot!  They did play it excessively as well, along with Cheech and Chong’s  Sister Mary Elephant skit. Both pieces gave us all chuckles as we got dizzy on the push merry-go-round.

13Q radio was the station of choice in the spring of 1973, for [First Love] and me.  In sixth grade we loved meeting during the social hour on the boys side playground from 7:00 PM to 8:00 PM on Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday evenings.  In my sixth grade year, I had no portable radio of my own.  So, [Tad] loaned me his almost every night, to take to the merry-go-round, and make some romantic musical memories with [First Love].  13Q played some good ones too, including The Four Tops hit,  Ain’t No Woman Like the One I Got, Focus’s progressive hit, Hocus Pocus, and Skylark’s rock ballad, Wildflower

We listened mainly in the evenings, when DJ Jackson Armstrong talked fast and yelled into the mic, announcing each song and doing little bits of humor.  Armstrong made comments that bordered on the obscene, and made us grade schoolers giggle endlessly.  Another 13Q DJ, Batman Johnson, followed Armstrong at 10:00 PM.  But I never listened to him much because in those days, I got to bed by 10:00 or 10:30 at the latest.  In fact, Armstrong is the only 13Q personality that I remember well.  13Q would not have been 13Q without him.  Unfortunately, he passed away the day before Easter in 2008 from falling down the stairs in his home. 

Of course, we listened most to the FM side, which though in mono, sounded so much better than the AM version.  Even at the age of 12, I knew what good audio fidelity was and sought it relentlessly in records, tapes, and FM radios.  I remember fiddling with receivers for hours on weekends at home in Altoona, trying to pull in 13Q FM (WSHH).  One chilly but sunny Saturday afternoon in the back yard at home in March of 1973, I picked them up just barely above the FM radio mixer hissing noise, heard on frequencies where no station is coming in.  As they played that Loggins and Messina hit, called Your Mama Don’t Dance, I frantically whipped the telescoping antenna around on the Panasonic portable that I’d borrowed from [Jackie] for the weekend, overjoyed that I’d been able to pick them up at all, and desperate to get them in more clearly.  But WGMR FM in Tyrone at 101.1 Mhz., interfered in one direction, while WVAM FM in Altoona at 100.1 Mhz. interfered from another.  Still though, I was proud of that Panasonic radio, even though it was not mine,  for how sensitive it proved to be.  Panasonic made really great radios in those days. 

While I enjoyed listening to the FM side (as hissy as it was) in Altoona, I soon grew bored with all the static.  So I tried tuning in to the 13Q Radio AM transmitter one night.  I got it fairly well, occasionally.  But it faded in and out quite a bit and I got interference from WTRN in Tyrone at 1340 Khz, and WFBG in Altoona, at 1290 Khz.  Nonetheless, I kept listening to 13Q whenever possible and however I could get them, because it made me feel closer to   [First Love]   just hearing the songs on the weekends when she was not around, that she and I enjoyed during the week at WPSBC. One night in early May, 1973, my parents drove to Pittsburgh to see me play trombone in   my first WPSBC spring concert.  Then, as we drove back to Altoona afterwards, I kept my ears glued to 13Q for as long as they lasted.  At night, they cut back their AM transmitter power and we weren’t too far out of Pittsburgh before they faded away.  The FM that night wasn’t much better.  That didn’t matter though because by the time we got home at around midnight, I’d been sleeping in the car for over an hour anyway.

13Q radio made a big splash in Pittsburgh playing fewer commercials than other local stations, along with all the money they gave away.  They often ran this telephone contest, where they’d call random numbers.  The person answering the phone was to say, “I listen to the new sound of 13Q!”  If the person said this first, they’d win an unsightly large cash prize; thirteen thousand dollars became typical and then later on, they grew the jackpot to twenty-five thousand and beyond.   Neither my school mates nor myself ever knew any winners, and to my knowledge, none of us ever received a call ourselves from this seemingly endless cash radio source.  But hearing others yell and scream who had won, was really cool. 

In the fall of 1973, approximately a year after I’d begun listening to 13Q, the FM side changed format to the so-called beautiful musicgenre.  Gone was the high fidelity pop music that had seriously sweetened the spring of 1973 with [First Love].  I discovered this upon return to school to start my seventh grade year, and felt sad over the loss for several weeks.  Fortunately however, a new FM station, WPEZ had begun broadcasting over the summer at 94.5 Mhz., and they turned out to be every bit as good as 13Q radio, in my humble opinion. Besides, after [First Love] and I broke up, 13Q became a painful reminder of what we once enjoyed together, but did so no more.  So with the FM side gone along with [First Love], I didn’t listen to them much after this; not until 1978 anyway, when I thought [First Love] and I might get back together again.

One never heard any dead air on 13Q radio.  Everythihg from the announcements and commercials, to even the music itself was played fast, and DJ Jackson Armstrong set this sort of tone for the rest of the station with his rapid-fire zingers and shouting.  Listening to 13Q was like pounding down a few cups of espresso; just hearing them raised the blood pressure and heart rate a little, and usually made me smile.

I took the radio to Flagstaff Hill in Pittsburgh’s Oakland section a few times with [First Love], in the spring of 1978, and then a couple times by myself during the fall of 1979, as I reminisced about the good times there with her the previous year.  Then, their big slogan went something like, “13Q keeps you humming along.” 

WKTQ AM 1320 (13Q) continued broadcasting until 1981, and I listened a lot during the fall of 1979, when they had adopted a calmer, more adult sound.   They played the gentler side of top 40 then with songs like Neil Diamond’s hit, September Morn and the Dirt Band’s Let’s Make a Little Magic along with Linda Ronstadt’s hit, Hurt So Bad.  In 1981, they went back to what they’d been playing before becoming 13Q; returning to their old call letters (WJAS), and started playing the music-of-your-life format once more.  This included popular jazz and big band sounds. 

The disappearance of 13Q weighed heavily on my heart.  But by the mid 70s, a few other FM stations in western PA were playing top 40 music in addition to WPEZ; the elevator-music era on FM radio was coming to an end.  The additional pop music stations made the loss of 13Q radio bearable, though I’ve never forgotten them and how they really spiced up my sixth grade school year with all sorts of great music and funny talk.  Thus, I’ve written this piece in tribute to 13Q, to express my heart felt appreciation for what they were and how they made me so happy as a twelve year-old boy.  Thanks for everything, 13Q radio.  May you rest in peace.   

Tom Hesley

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Today’s Business: 2009-10-08

Thursday, October 8th, 2009

07:20 AM: Listened to an episode of Dr. Joy Browne.  My back is quite sore today after all that digging and rock heaving in the flower box yesterday.  A day of lighter physical fare is definitely in order.  :-)

09:25 AM: Journaled for an hour or two.

11:13 AM: Added a post called   Gram Jewell Died   to this blog.

11:53 AM: Updated the   Shed Roof Replacement Project   document with the latest accomplishments and information I’ve acquired about roof replacement.

04:00 PM: Added a post called   Dreams of BT   to the   Tom’s Love Quest   blog. 

04:15 PM: Heard from [Emmy].  she’s got nasty cramps and just needed to hear a cheery voice. I hope I was cheerful enough; I usually am when I’m writing, as I have been most of today.

05:00 PM: Went to Lowe’s to get the new shingles for the   Shed Roof Replacement Project, and then Richard showed me how to measure and cut them to specs for this particular roof.

06:45 PM: Sister Christine stopped by to drop off some clean clothes for sister JoJo and I to take up to Mom tomorrow.

09:15 PM: Just finished a couple hours of revisions to the   Dreams of BT   post. 

10:35 PM: Talked with [Emmy], and we listened to the end of the third period of the Penguins Vs. Flyers game.  The Pens beat the flyers 5 to 4.

11:00 PM: Watched The Young and the Restless and a bit of CNN’s AC360.

Mostly cloudy today with the sun making only brief appearances in the morning.  High temperatures reached the upper 50s.

Tom

Today’s Business: 2009-09-15

Tuesday, September 15th, 2009

Grilled two 8-ounce trout and heated a can of vegetable soup for lunch for the two of us.  Aside from the strong and quite residual fish odor here in [Emmy's] apartment, the meal tasted quite good and was moderately filling.  Next time, we’ll have to get some slightly bigger fish. 

We watched our usual TV today, including The Young and the Restless, Dr. Phil. KDKA TV local news, NBC Nightly News, and CNN’s AC 360.  We may look in on the last episode of Guiding Light, which is to air this coming Friday, September 18th, 2009.

Patric Swayze passed away last night of pancreatic cancer.  His death reminded me of my favorite movie of 1990, which was   Ghost,  in which Swayze played the protagonist.  The Dirty Dancing movie was pretty good also; I watched this for the first time in 2000 with [Lynn].  But of these two, I liked Ghost the best. Though I’ve seen this movie perhaps ten times, I still get teary-eyed at the end when the gates to heaven open up for the last time, beckoning Swayze to enter. 

[Emmy] gave me one of her world-class back massages during AC 360.

The Penguins played their first pre-season game tonight against the Columbus Blue Jackets.  The Pens won 5 to 4 in overtime.  We listened to the game on Internet radio.

Cloudy morning today but mostly sunny afternoon with high temperatures in the low 80s.

Tom